
The bird often sits in the bare branches
of the elm tree in the backyard. I think it sad that the tree has lost all its
beautiful leaves but I've noticed that the bird takes advantage of its nakedness.
She sits at the very top having the best view of everything. There are no leaves
to obscure her range of sight. She is in a good position to see everything that
is going on. I suspect she doesn't grieve the end of the youthful spring, the
passing of summer's warmth, the promise of harvest in the autumn gone. To the
bird, winter is not like a death. She does not feel the need to withdraw and
wait impatiently until the seasons turn again. She seems to enjoy the crisp
air. She sings to the sky despite its grey undercoat.
I’ve learned from her. It occurs to me that one of the things a period
(be it a season or a moment) of winter does in my life is to lay everything
bare so that I could examine how I’ve been living, thinking and feeling. In
resting in the quietness of the stripped back season, I can look out to new
horizons. I have a chance to reflect and brave my fear of all that I experience
as cold and desolate. Change is not easy at the best of times but there is a
time to let things lie; to accept the solitude and in it, be at peace with the
lessons that winter brings. And despite it all, like the wise little bird, I
can still sing to the sky.